Rabbaim – sometimes we need to just chill. especially in light of all the recent events. i think we’d go nuts if we didn’t. like bpt said “Not to worry though,Av / Elul / selicos / Rosh H/ YK is almost here, so you’ll have all the “tachlis” you want (and so desparately crave)”
also – no one is forcing you to be on this thread. this is for those of us who want to have fun.
so…. how about the phrase “at the end of the day”?