Alot of times I see kids off the derech in the sense that they come into the Kosher store where I work with out a Yarmulka not even a cap.
The parents I know are very active in the SHule and community.
So in this case, the parents know. But I am upset by my attitude.
I say to myself what is the big deal to wear baseball hat, they davka want everyone to know.
As a parent, what with the struggles to pay their tuitions as well as all else, it seems very snotty and ingrateful that they can’t even wear a cap.
But why do I have this holier than thou attitude? Let’s say I am even right that they are rotten kids, what gives me the right to be so judgemental?