72- Wow! You basically covered all the grounds that I would have mentioned! Kudos 🙂
Trim, from the little you have said the one other thing that I can say with certainty is that your marriage certainly has much potential and you both must try much harder to care for the other (generalization: without knowing your personal situation) before you even breath the word divorce! It will obviously take some work, but it is definitely feasible.
(sorry 72, though you said it well, I couldn’t resist the urge to add my cents/ sense)