Reply To: What if you thought you knew…

ok, so the situation is like his.

Its not “the @ birth” kind of condition, i think its something that may have developed.

What happen was, a friend of mine is in the medical field (lets call her B) “B” and I were at an event where she met my friend “C” in passing, and noticed some symptoms of a condition that is not always so common, not always always noticed and easily looked at as normal.

For example: a person l’a who has diabetes sometimes gives off a fruity smell …one can think its perfume or what not- when really its a sign of a condition.

Here, I dont think my friend “C” knows that she could possibly have this condition my friend “B’ explained to me, and its treatable with a simple procedure, but its NOT the type to walk up to her and say, listen i noticed XYZ maybe we can go and check it out together…and sending her an email like “whatever happens, you know im there for you” would come off rather strange – and she aint stupid- she’d be like, what? whats goin on?

so, on one hand I want to let her be aware of this condition, and she’ll probably check it out (if she has it im certain she’ll take care of it) and the other I dont want it to dampen our friendship.

Please help me.