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WM Send her a note thanking her for her response, wishing the couple lots of nachas and mazal, and that you look forward to receiving a check before date X (pick a date at some point — but not too long — after Sheva Brachos)
I like that and I did just that. Heres what I wrote- I think it’s non- threatening but to the point:
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_ _ _ _, I want to make sure you understand that I never got a check.
Did you ever mail me a check (Id really like an answer- why should I wonder) and if yes, what made you turn the responsibility over to the couple?
Are they aware that they have the responsibility? If yes, Id really like it within a month, just as anyone likes to be paid for services rendered.