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June 22, 2011 5:37 am at 5:37 am #791158
Ofcourse
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The Chassan and Kallah both are on Facebook. Is there a tactful way to let them know that their mother/mother in law expects them to take care of Shadchanus?

If we believe that not paying Shadchanus can be harmful to Mazel, whether the Shadchan feels badly about it or not, then wouldnt I be helping them by telling them that it wasnt taken care of?