kapusta
Thanks for the welcome back! Not sure how long Ill be around…but im enjoying myself so far…
The purpose of Cheesed is to do a kindness for the person, enabling someone to be more lazy or to become a user is not a chessed and in fact is a non chessed to the person. It is not beneficial for the person. So you haven’t done a chessed and in fact you have been cruel to the person and made your own middos worse.
Does this make sense?