“and why would it be a “waste” for you to marry a learning boy if you dont have a preference?”
because i dont have a preferance, ppl feel like they have to “save” the really good learning guys for those who will appreciate it. and if i would even considar a working guy, i must not be able to appreciate a good learner. whatever, idk if im making much sense, just letting off steam…isnt that what this thread is for? 😉