Hey, Goq, I work with older singles all day, every day, and “zeh mah she’yaish”! Its the ones who are complacent and not freaked out by older singlehood that I look down upon! If they get married its good, if they dont its good too.
You know the old Yiddish saying- Nor a Shtein zul zein alein . Spending time with same gender friends just isnt the same!
BTW, I didnt name names!