Reply To: Too Fast

You guys crack me up.

Here are some of my anwswers:

(in order of posts)

bpt- indecisive; i did that, but im going to make it more clear.

oomis1105- agreed

am yisrael chai- sharp line- LIKE

Another name- definitly what i was thinking.

aries2756- there is no shadchan in the middle, just the friend that set us up; and i DID have a long conversation with her about it yesterday.

popa_bar_abba- I cant believe you knew that!!?!! yes, thats what usually happens (but not because of how fast guys go and the things they say, but I usually call it off for the right reasons etc)

kapusta- very true, and thanks for the “motherly advice” 🙂 I do agree with you on what you said, and to answer your question- 6 IN ONE WK!!

bpt-#1- no, i have been for quite some time now.

#2 – Ages?- both in 20’s. he’s bout 25/26 (he also has been around the block in dating and in life and has repeatedly said, he knows what he wants (in life/wife), he;s not playing games, he’s very serious (bout closing the “deal’))

#3 – Date duration? – VERY LONG, usually nights because thats when were both available- anywhere from 4/5-6/7 hours!!and time DOES fly by…we dont even want to say good bye- and we’ve gone 2 ot of places- NO LOUNGES!

On the other hand- he knows I want more time, and he understands and told me were in no rush (but KNOW he wants to do it soon, but i ALSO know he’s so devoted, compassioante, sincere and caring that he’ll wait however long until i’m ready)

adorable- Trust me, I daven for it ALWAYS!! I did speak to him…

coffee addict- im POSITIVE im not dating middle path..lol

so heres my problem now-

I like him, and like spending time with him, and i can see a good future- but i’m not all that attrated to him..he’s not ugly or anything.

ALSO, we dont text during the day, if we dont meet up that day we have a LITEREALLY 3 min conversation.

Everything is good, but theres this small nagging feeling inside, like the whole “gut” thing…I’ve spoken to close and wise friends and older guiding adults- they all said to keep going…so I am…