Legen-dary, First of all I’m sure I’m not the only one that appreciates actually receiving a response to my comment. Thanks! I am quite impressed that you went down the line and answered all the posters.
Secondly, while almost all sounds well with this guy, what bothers me a little is his lack of attraction. You definitely have to feel some appeal to him. There’s a difference between an “attractive guy” and someone who YOU personally feel attracted to. That is something that you have to figure out for yourself before you go forward. If you need advice, you can discuss your concerns with a rav aware of the situation or your parents.
From everything you said about him, he really sounds great, and if it is meant to be, I look very forward to a mazal tov! 🙂