“I definitely don’t think it’s the best way of starting a marriage.”
Most people don’t start going to their own place until they are married for about 4 years. (Going to your parents / in-laws place does not count, as that’s no different from the going over that’s done all year).
My comments were based on years 5 and beyond
” some places are even open for cholent at 3 “
3:00 am cholent will interfere with my pre-shacris coffee. No thanks.