“Most people don’t start going to their own place until they are married for about 4 years. (Going to your parents / in-laws place does not count, as that’s no different from the going over that’s done all year)”.
If I understand correctly, you are saying that it’s okay for a younger couple to go to parents’ bungalow for the summer? Aren’t they still being exposed to many other “perfect” marriages?
“3:00 am cholent will interfere with my pre-shacris coffee”
I hear you!