“it’s okay for a younger couple to go to parents’ bungalow for the summer. Aren’t they still being exposed to many other “perfect” marriages?
What I meant was, since the young couple travels back and forth each weekend (and are not separated for the mid-week, like us older folks) the risks to a new marraige are not as present. As for seeing other “prefect marraiges” they are still so starry-eyed, they can see little else, so until year 5, they are missing all the cues anyways.
Plus, the real insights into other people’s lives only come to the surface during the week when husbands are away in city exile, and is then is promptly reported, in great detail on the weekend recap of “so, whats new?”
Something newlyweds dont get a chance to ask, as they are never apart for more than 12-15 hours at a time