Reply To: I don't deserve her

Ok, so I just want to clear up a few things. I don’t suffer from low self esteem. I know I’m a great guy. I do think I have everything a girl would want in a husband. I also have no trouble making commitments. I definitely know she wants to continue, and so do I. Thinking more about what’s actually bothering me, I think I’ve come to slightly different conclusion. Since she has a great family, plenty of money, and seemingly nothing too troublesome in her life (Although, yes, I’m sure she’s had something), I’m a little concerned she may not be able to deal with more serious problems. I guess I always assumed I would marry someone that went through just as many difficulties as myself, and this sin’t the case. But why should that be something high up on my “list”? (No, I don’t actually have any list.) Is it that important to me that the girl should be able to deal with very difficult things? Why should that really matter?