Reply To: I don't deserve her

Everyone, thanks so much for your concern. We just met up, and we decided together that the best to do for both of us at this point would be to break it off. We spoke out all the pros and cons of each decision, we both gave it our best shot, and we decided, at this point, it wouldn’t make sense to continue, and that we should both move on.

There’s one thing that is bothering me now, though: We realize that we enjoy each other’s company, and have a lot in common, so when we were parting, she said something along the lines of “Who knows, if it’s meant to be, then it’ll somehow work out.” And I’m wondering, for her sake, is that healthy? If she has me in the back of her mind, won’t that affect her judgement for her future dates? I know I have no reason to be worried anymore, but I’m concerned about it.