We had this one teacher in school, a Lubavitcher, who never wanted to embarrass a girl if she was disruptive or misbehaving in class. He had a very unique way of calling her attention to her behavior, without letting anyone know who he was speaking about (and, in fact, he probably caused a ripple effect of others shaping up at that moment also). He would say (without looking at anyone in particular)”she is talking” ” she is chewing gum”, and everyone would stop to figure out if he was talking about them. It was truly amazing and effective. he was one of the inspirational people I met along the way.
