ZeesKite, so right now, is your hat black or gray?
Look, it’s best to come to a Rav prepared and knowledgable about the issue. So you want to be able to tell him, “WIY holds I’m not allowed to, aries feels it’s not nice, PBA is threatening to throw me down the stairs, charliehall says my wife should do it, ItcheSrulik says he used to do it, Joseph yells I must do it, and Wolf wrote in a footnote that of course he wouldn’t do it. So, who do I follow?”