i’ve gone out with guys who don’t wear a suit but wear a nice v-neck sweater over button-down and dress pants and i think that’s perfectly acceptable. no black hat. persnally i make so much fun of guys sitting in starbucks with suits and black hats. c’mon pple just chill out e/o!! why is e/t so formal!! i’m gonna change the whole shidduch system till no1 wears a hat at all!
