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oh no! sorry you felt that way! so now back to what someone said before. are you only traumatized because you were nervous and uncomfortable, or because it was really a bad date (if you really think about it, i doubt your answer will be the second one). but look at the bright side, if he wants to go out with you again, you don’t have to go through the “meeting process” again. you will have met him already, may take the edge off the nerves. and obv, if he wants to go out again, your nervousness did not matter to him, and it shows you he can see beyond it, to the special person you are. (but i’m just saying this as encouragement, cuz obv, i dunno what his thoughts are) and if it turns out that he is not the one, don’t be discouraged. whoever is bashert for you will like you for who you are, and nerves won’t get in the way of that. hatzlacha and keep us posted!