Observanteen: Sorry, I do not understand your way of thinking.
You’re still seeing this from a perspective of what the other wants or needs to know. I’m seeing it from what I want and need (for myself) to tell.
I want to tell because this is supposed to be the person I can always tell.
I want to tell because I want her to understand what I’ve been through. To understand me.
I want to tell because I want a relationship where I’m accepted completely. With every aspect of my past present and future.