Reply To: Going to Future In Laws for Shabbos

I think you should go into any gift shop and choose something for the house, a hostess gift, like a dish, with a set of small spoons, salt and pepper shakers (crystal) something special for the first visit. I had the same dilemma thirty years ago, after agonizing for days, i brought crystal salt and peppers only to find out that she already had three paris exactly the same… Oh every time i see them i wish I could take them back!!! you cant find those anymore@!!!