As my Rav said, “(We need to work) calming down and relaxing everything will come in its right time.”
When HaKadosh Baruch Hu feels that she is ready for her bashert and he for her, they will surely meet. Everything in this world happens precisely at its right time and not a moment sooner. I would instruct your friend to focus on how she can improve herself so that once she meets her bashert she is ready for him. Until that time when we all meet our basherts, we have the unique opportunity to prepare ourselves – fix our negative middos (anger, arrogance, greed, lust etc.) and develop our positive ones (patience, compassion, respect, etc.), learn skills (cooking, cleaning, time and money management), and to learn Torah. Certainly, one can and should work on himself throughout life, but we have the greatest opportunity now while we are still single and independent to grow the most. Hatzlacha rabbah and Good Shabbos!