right when i came home from seminary, my closest friends all started dating right away. im now two years out and all my close friends are married b”h. i have never gone out yet because as i have mentioned in previous posts, i am a bit on the heavier side and im working on getting it under control. (also, because of that, its TEN TIMES harder to get dates, but thats a seperate issue…) so basically, i’ll be 21 soon, i havent started dating, and my really close friends are all having babies already! b”h, i could not be happier for them!!!!! but there was a time when i was having a VERY hard time with it. i felt like everyone besides me was moving on in life, while i was just on the sidelines watching. but then i realized, that now i have so much oppertunity that none of my married friens will ever have! i am single, i have very few obligations and responsibilities tying me down right now, and i can say that i although i would LOVE to get married sometime soon, i am REALLY HAPPY with where i am right now!!! everyone who is in this situation, should just LIVE IT UP!!! once youre married, you cant just do whatever you want, whenever you want!!!
