Wow. I used to have a friend like that, sister bear. Unfortunately, she ended up abusing ME and refused to get help – which resulted in me dropping her.
Bomb, I must say, you’re truly amazing. I’d suggest you deal with kids at risk. You know precisely what should be done, and your approach is very healthy.
“Her mother clearly has no desire to get better because she refuses to acknowledge that she has a problem in the first place. It is a waste of time staying with such a person, or maintaining a close emotional bond. ” – Exactly the case with my friend. Boy is this true!
Sister, PLEASE make sure you are still able to go on with your life. Don’t obsess over her life. I assume you’re in your late teens (forgive me if I’m wrong), which is pretty young to absorb such kind of abuse even though not directed at you. Also, make sure your relationship with her is healthy. Don’t get too involved. If necessary, contact a therapist. Please get guidance from daas Torah on how to deal with this issue. Hatzlacha Rabba!