It’s like a puzzle really, when you put all your own pieces together, you know what piece is missing and would make you whole.
This is in Ruchnius mostly an Gashmiyus too.
Whom ever you feel and you can picture, with their ma’alos and yours together, can build a happy, healthy, Bayis Ne’man.
Daven to HB”H to open your eyes to realize who it is and to help you make the right decision.
Hatzlocha Rabboh!