“Since I have had this psak, have decided to stop going on chat rooms and private messaging women, trying to seduce them to marriage.”
“MichaelC: Did your Rav explain why you can’t?”
After reading his most recent comment, you need a reason WHY he shouldnt have a shadchan set him up? Unless seduce is a poor, unfortunate choice of words, would you want him approaching YOUR daughter? He sounds like the type of guy every father warns their daughter about.