Reply To: can i date a girl without Shadchan????????/

Sam2, I was just conjecturing at the beginning, I wanted people to answer my question, then on Shabbos I asked my Rov, who answered my question but he gave no reason so I assumed it was a Minhag, so I spoke to another Rabbi (on Monday) who explained the reason to me, telling me it was a ‘geder’.

My agenda was to find out the truth, now I know a person needs a Shadchan my agenda is to emphasize this fact.