Reply To: can i date a girl without Shadchan????????/

Sam2 my agenda now is to make you all use Shadchanim, I asked the Shailo first to a major Rov of our town.

He is a Kabbalist, he has eidetic memory, speaks every week in the main Charedi Shul, and the hall is full with his audience.

He is a Rov of a big modern orthodox shul, and on Shabbos afternoon (in the summer) he attracts between 400-600 people from all round the community (mostly modern orthodox, men and women, he speaks on various topics every week.

Rabbaim around the world ask him Shailos.

I walked 45 minutes on Shabbos to hear his psak.

I know he is right, it was not just for me, he has said it in a Shiur he gave a few years ago.

If the moderators close these threads fine, but as long as this thread remains open and people ask questions and raise challenges I will keep replying, the Talmud says there is no end to Kiruv. Let this thread reach 1000 posts, i’m ready for it.