Reply To: can i date a girl without Shadchan????????/

Ok so look at Tanach, many cases it does not say ‘explicitly’ a Shadchan was used, this is because it is ‘obivious’ one was used, therefore the text had no need to mention it . So if you like ‘rikki’ would read my ‘history of the Shadchan’ post more carefully and ‘not’ accuse me of ‘twisting’ Halacha, then maybe you would not stigmatize me (copying popas bar abba assumption) to say I have a ‘agenda'(which you you and Health mentioned at least 10 times).

The point i was making that even in the extreme cases where it seems no shadchan was used, there is a proof that one was used, or in Dovid Hamelech’s case (Batsheva was destined to him since the Six Day’s of Creation), or Yaakov’s case as he was extremely old, even in those cases (although not said explicitly, see above), a Shadchan was probably used.

Why are you and Health constantly fighting me on this, it’s as if you and Health have a ‘agenda’.