“After World War 2 many people were single, and older (Holocaust survivors) so the Rabbanim made Heterim for marriage without Shadchanim (when media was still in black and white). However these were not the Midos Chassidic people. The ‘holier’ Yidden even in this time with these circumstances used Shadchanim.”
This is offensive and you lose any legitimacy you may have had. Who the heck are you to judge people who went throught the holocaust and then did or didn’t use a Shadchan? It looks like you copy pasted this from some sick web site, please edit that out in your future postings. Edit out the moral high ground when talking about a situation you have never had to face.