It was written that the brother in law is a little chassidish. I know many many many chassidim and most of them are working. In fact, many work in the diamond district. Besides for the fact that I think it is ridiculous for a family to be upset that there daughter and son in law decided that it was time for him to go work. And you’re scared of a shidduch?! I really really really never say this and I don’t know if I should but I smell troll here. It makes no sense to me that you would be scared of your shidduch being shtered because of the fact that your sibling decided that it was time for her family to have a parnassa coming in to the home.
I seriously do not understand this attitude at all.