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I can’t tell you about generalities or other people’s situations, only my own. I can tell you he once repeated to me a nasty comment that was said about me by a friend of his. He told me his friend said to him”doesn’t it bother you that ……………’s so wide?” ok, so it’s nasty enough that a friend says something derogatory, but to repeat it? There were other signs as well. Just don’t brush thin sunder the carpet that bother you. If you’re troubled about his hashkafa, how he talks about family, anything, address it, either with him or another to get clarity.