Like I said – saying s/o has Good Middos to me is fluff. If another person says this person goes to the nursing home everyday and feeds the people whom can’t feed themselves, this IMO is a description of Good Middos!
I can definitely understand that. But there are some people that are just best described as being a mentch. Its hard to formulate an opinion and get an idea of what they’re like based on that but sometimes its the best way to describe them.
Everything is relative. Saying she dresses nicely, her clothing is Tznius etc is all dependent on the level of the person giving the info.
If it gets to the stage of a date, then usually you can tell pretty quickly what her middos are like.