Sam: Your stories don’t make sense.
Going to a conservative shul is like going to a church. Someone who would go to a conservative shul because she wants to give a women’s shiur, is not normal. (Plenty of women give shiurim to women- this story makes no sense anyway. ????? ??? ?? ??? ???? ???).
Likewise for saying kaddish. While I empathize with a woman who does not have a brother to say kaddish for her parents, going to a conservative shul over it is just strange.