Okay, first of all: Shlishi, if a woman wants to work, she can. Don’t think less of her because of it. Some women contribute so much to the world. Also, these days two incomes are needed to raise children. Not everyone is rich or has other means of income. Personally, I wish I wouldn’t have to work, but that’s not because I am WOMAN. You are correct that when a woman has children it is preferable that she be home with them, but again, these days that’s really hard.
Second of all: adorable, I don’t want to criticize you, but a) you’re engaged! Be happy that you met your soul mate. Don’t complain. B) You’re making it seem like you’re upset with the man you chose. You chose a learner, so you have to prepare yourself for that lifestyle. Honestly, where is the money supposed to come from if you don’t want to work? I really don’t understand this. If a girl’s wish is to stay home, she should choose a guy with a stable job. But I think she should have a security net (like a college degree) so that if times get tough, she can get a job if needed.