“Obaminator
“it is relatively rare in our community”
Unfortunately, it’s not as rare as you might think or hope. It is more rare for victims to publicly admit it.”
His (her?) point remains, however – it IS relatively rare in our community, compared to society in general. Same for other, horrible types of abuse. Each individual situation is a tragedy, and the whole concept needs to be gone from our community, but those who exaggerate the extent of these occurrences to advance their own agendas (and I am NOT talking about you, chas v’shalom) cause needles amounts of Chillul Hashem.