mak – I was really laughing at your question about the nusach for the fishies thrown down the … ahem…
Well, I asked my husband and he told me with a very straight face that the nusach is the same no matter how you plan to dispose of the poor fellows – ha yailaich lemisa.
Well, I thought it was a funny ?, but he’s a REAL BRISKER.
(Oops, not the real brisker here in the CR, just one in real life).