In defense of Charlie: Someone who has already commented on this thread once challenged me to identify who she was. In a matter of 10 minutes I had her pegged, with enough scary detail that would spook you. And that was only from info culled from her comments in the coffeeroom. I posted my process on her, (you lived here before, now you live there, you have so may kids, genders and ages, you come from here, your husband is from there, you had this illness last year, etc) and thankfully, the mod did not let it through.
I have already given away so much about myself on other threads, that anyone who cares (I’m sure there aren’t too many that do) can identify me in a couple of minutes. But I’m a big boy, and I can handle any heat generated back to me from anything I’ve ever said here.
But for the teenage crowd, gumball and others, they don’t really understand the big bad world out there, and what people with not-so-kosher motives can do with personal info. I would agree with CB et al that shtika adif.