Reply To: scary "off the derech" – need help

I can’t be sure how serious he is (because he won’t share information with his family), but my impression is that they were probably dating “casually” for a few months. He has a few relatives who keep some mitzvos, but only one who is basically orthodox whom he respects and has a relationship with. I have a similar impression from this relative that he thinks it’s fruitless to get involved. I just can’t see doing nothing.