As one who has usually worked in the regular world. I am frequently asked questions about jewish life especially when stuff his the news.
How is it “Kiddush Hashem” when a African American co-worker asked me How come you jews send your women to the back of the bus just like in the Jim Crow South?
I’d say that depends on if we are being chauvinistic, or following our ideals.
How is it a kiddush Hashem when a lefty lunatic asks me “How come you jews mutilate your eight day old babies?”