Boro Park Mensch
Calm down, i mamesh can hear you screaming like the Rechnitzer Rebbe. No one is speaking loshon hora, it is ledivrei toeles to try and help your shul. Sometimes people look at life through a mirror(where they see themselves only) rather than through glass/window, where they can see others.
Like i mentioned, i enjoy coming to the shul and contribute nicely and will continue doing so even for the few times i may attend.
Listen and be realistic or else you’ll need a box of Kleenex for your tears of mourning(the Shul), chas v’shalom.
Tell me where you sit and i will say hello when i come next time!