Don’t know!
I was in the same ‘matzav’ two weeks ago. I saw 2 friends talking to another. As soon as I approach, this individual starts ‘showering’ me with insults such as I’ve never experienced before. I was literary beet red. I was shaking. I was SOOO embarrassed! I couldn’t even think straight. After I stumbled away, this person comes over to me and says “I really meant what I said. You shouldn’t have listened in to my conversation..”
OUCH!! (x10)