Since you don’t think you can talk to her to find out more information without “yelling or screaming”, is there a third party who can help you find out what she felt was so important that she had to go behind your back to your fiance to talk to him about? Doesn’t she realize that you are at a highly emotional time of your life. Being a kallah is one of the most special times of a woman’s life, but it can be highly stressful, with all the preparations, right up til the big day. Plus, whether or not you are seeing your fiance during this period, there are always little emotional issues that come up during this time and can be magnified by just such a situation as your friend has caused for you. I am assuming that she is single since she seems to be unaware of this (but that does not mean that a well-intentioned but misguided married friend could not cause a similar problem as well). I think you should try to find someone who can help you investigate the situation a little to try and help you get an idea of her intentions and maybe you will be able to find a zechus for her and that might help you calm down before you go off the deep end when you talk to her. All the best.
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