What exactly about this system is going to motivate someone, especially a girl, to be part of it?
I wouldn’t be surprised if girls, especially older girls/girls who society deems “undesirable,” just leave this system and go to more modern circles. They may not get the “best boy in yeshiva” but at least they have a chance of being part of a society that respects who they are, and marry someone who respects them as a person, not as a checkbook, family tree, or Barbie doll…..