When the Shadchanim start concentrating on helping out the older girls, we may have a solution. I have a relative, in her 30’s told point blanc, by shadchanim that they only work with younger girls. Of course, they do, as they have more of chance to make a shidduch that way. She’s called so often, that they’ve told her, don’t call us, we’ll call you, if we can think of anybody. They aren’t even trying. I just don’t like the fact, that NASI organaztion, has set the bar, at what it should cost to help older girls find a shidduch.
Let the matchmakers, concentrate on the older girls, only and let the boys, go out with girls older then themselves.