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I think a productive way of returning to a warm and cozy place would be to let mean, insulting, annoying, and over the top comments go unanswered when possible. Comments that are so inappropriate or are made to anger people should be ignored when possible and maybe the posters will give it up. Generally, the rebuttals to the posts and rebuttals to the rebuttals and heated words at the two rebuttal-ing (?) are what brings on the negative atmoshphere. And also, everyone should bring a home baked food with them when they come.