Reply To: How to help someone who doesn't want to be helped

I suggest he knows things are not fine but is ok with things at this level, even though they are not ok. Just know that Hashem is in this with you and will do a lot, but all you can do, the way I see it, is go light and easy with him and dont lose track of him. Keep in eye on him and converse with him, encouraging him a little at a time to get back on track. He is lucky you are watching out for him. Hatzlacha!