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DY, it is loshon horah because you are picking on women who dress in a manner that they choose to dress instead of just role modeling and asking your own kids NOT to dress that way. Or asking your own wives NOT to dress that way. What is the point of speaking badly about these women? Why be so judgmental? It is NOT nice seriously. You won’t solve the problem here and you are just venting pure loshon horah here.
Here is another perspective. Men want to marry size 2 women. Yes only skinny, skinny women and then they get pregnant and they feel fat. The maternity clothes are huge and ugly, not stylish and not pretty at all. Here you have tiny women who now can no longer fit into their tiny clothes and now look like their fat counterparts who their husbands would never have dated in the first place. They don’t want to feel fat. They just want to look pregnant. How do they do that? They still want to be attractive to their husbands and they still want to dress as they dressed when they were a size 2. They are brainwashed from the time they were teenagers to be skinny, skinny, skinny. Who did this to them????? So no they don’t want to wear ugly maternity clothes. They want to wear clothes that make them feel thin and cute just like before. Maybe that is the problem.
So stop looking for reasons to judge others. It is pure loshon horah. And to the men, stop looking at women!