BaalHabooze -“Hey no one said taking care of elderly parents wasn’t hard work, and undoubtly can be difficult at times. But to label your father or mother as ‘a burden’ is keneged hashkofas hatorah.”
Even after I explained myself you continued with the above post. So now I see your true intentions. You hate everything about Lakewood including e/o who lives here. Please tell us your town so I can curse it out amongst the fact that people there aren’t Dan L’caf Zecus!
From the Merriam-Webster dictionary:
“Definition of BURDEN:
1a : something that is carried : load
b : duty, responsibility
2: something oppressive or worrisome”
If you would have been Dan L’caf Zecus, you’d have said I meant #1b & not #2.
I wouldn’t want to raise my kids in your town where they aren’t Dan people L’caf Zecus!